Calling my friends, both those who share my values and those who do not, to discuss and argue with equity and amiability:
- no name calling. zero.
- no tit for tat. “you do this? well, I’m going to do this”.
- don’t be arrogant in your response – check and recheck yourself on this.
- separate people from the problem / issue.
- focus on the issues, not the people.
- love MUST be the message or we sound like clanging gongs.
- always take the high road and if you can’t say something with respect, don’t say it.
- be reasonable and articulate in your responses, and don’t be afraid to use humor.
- be grateful for events such as “Chik-fil-a”, that raise awareness and bring “street view” clarity to the life-changing and end-game battles going on in our culture today.
- use this time to hone in on your own view and crystallize your articulate, loving and pointed response to the issue at hand.